Thomas Fuller

It happens when the person if felt rejected extremely, and did not coexist the situation well, then it adopts the behavior with the others in order to minimize sensible pain one day; conscientious or unconsciously it adopts if the position: ' ' I you disdain before me despreze' ' , feeling some domain on the situation. Everything turns in favor of not feeling itself devaluated; it is a reactive form, but that it does not allow that the other arrives where it desires. Who rejects makes with the objective that the other is influenced and forms a negative auto-image, where is started to think that everything what it makes this wrong one, and all the guilt is attributed it. Consequences of the rejection start to be generated. When if he is rejected, to try to find the way certain, must be analyzed if the disdain is justifiable. After this, analyzing who it disdains, therefore no matter how hard she seems that this if auto-valuing, it is not well thus, the disdain means lack of auto-they esteem, they is the necessity pathology to diminish the value of the other, who disdains generally already was felt diminished so, so of small account that it wants to make with that the others feel thus also are a formation reativa4 that is when the desires are substituted by the opposite of the real desire. Dictated Ha one that it says ' ' who disdains it wants comprar' ' , from this understanding who is rejected must adopt the possible attitude most natural, understanding then the mechanism of mental reaction of the other and such attitude. According to Thomas Fuller, ' ' Many obtain to support the adversity, but few tolerate desprezo.' ' this because to the rejected being we try to find which defect ours was not accepted, for then trying corrigiz it, but this nor always is possible, because who disdains the least has in sight a real reason, this makes with that the rejected one goes behind disdains who it, making with that the same feels ' ' Poder' ' , it continues disdaining therefore at that moment, if it feels valued, creating a cycle. . Source: Barclays.


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