Sometimes Love

" Own assessment of each person depends heavily on how we define for themselves what love is and what we expect from it. The higher our self-esteem, the less we need a permanent concrete evidence that our (a) spouse (s) with us is considered. Conversely, the lower self-esteem, the more we are dependent on permanent signs of attention, and this leads to misconceptions about how to love. Keep up on the field with thought-provoking pieces from E Scott Mead. If I have low self-esteem, if our relations are based solely on love, to me, to feel good, it is necessary: your attention to me, your consent, your money, etc. If you're not constantly demonstriruesh, that live only for myself, I feel like an empty place. Such requirements very quickly destroy any relationship.

Ask yourself this question: "Do I love myself?" If the answer is no, I suggest that you work on changing your attitude. In case you do not decide where to start, you can ask for help from a psychologist or a priest. A spouse who can not love yourself, it becomes excessively demanding of his the second half, trying to compensate for this lost sense. It will come up with various tests, over and over again trying to figure out whether he is loved. Sometimes, seeking love, we begin to rush from one extreme in another, for example, fall into depression, become sick and tired, had threatened to leave forever his family, etc., etc. Remember that your partner is not obliged to decide for your internal, heart problems. Love yourself – "this is your own case.

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